LOVE SEX RELATIONSHIP

With the passing of time, everything is getting renovation. The outer world and the inner world. The old are slowly fading away and new are coming up. The new generation are changing day by day. The new technologies are slowly capturing the human brain. With this, the words are also changing, rather loosing its essence. Gone those days, when each and every word was having different meaning, flavour, taste and beauty. Now, every word are being mixed up with each other giving totally a new meaning or should say creating disaster.
I remember a line from one of the hit film of 2009, Love Aaj Kal, RIshi Kapoor comments to Nawab Khan, “Humare zamane main pehle ishq hota tha phir shaadi aur phir something. Par aaj to pehle wahi hota hai aur phir aap naam puchte hain. (In our time, we first used to love then marry and then something. But today you do that thing and then ask for the name)” this movie really did well. I liked the way they have compared the meaning of love in two generation. But as you know, that this is just the film and a film is never real. In fact the condition is more worst. While doing graduation, I used to hear lots of link-ups and break-ups. I used to think that how fast our generation is. Slowly I realised its not Love. They were linking-ups as one of the partner is most desirable in college, boys linked up to the beautiful girl to show his capability of having her. Girls linked up to the boy who is having more bank balance and can spend like rain. Whenever they find someone more desirable, then they break up and search for another victim. Luckily, I was none of them. For them, this is Love which comes in a package of beauty and money less emotion and understanding.
The condition is worst when it comes to sex. They say, “Its the hungriness of body which needs to be feed.” In older days, people used to first fall in love. Then used to meet. Then marry and them comes sex. But today, it’s first the comfort level in bed. Then they go for marriage. I was being told once, “Even if you love someone but are not able to get satisfaction in bed, then its of no use. So go ahead with sex. No harm in it.” but i failed to be so modern and smart. I loved to be orthodox and dumb. But today, people even don’t mind to go for extra marital affairs. For them it’s just the change of taste. Many feel proud to have an affair as they show to their friends that they can handle both women well. People don’t have any problem to have sex with their boss if they will be rewarded with promotion. It’s easy ladder to success.
Once I heard a man had sex with his male boss so that he can get promoted. I was shocked that how people are getting habit of easy way rather choosing a path of hard work and dedication. This whole concept isn’t new to society but the way it’s increasing, sooner or later everyone will be find following it. In older days, Love means to be together, but today it’s being used to be with the hot person and enjoy. Soon a day will come when at a certain age, one need to taste sex and find love. When having extra-marital affair will be fashion. And the deep meaning of Love and Relationship will be hidden somewhere in Sex.